I think most would agree that hate and love are two of the most powerful emotions we humans possess. Some might think fear should be included but I don’t really think so. Fear I believe is more of an instinct. A survival instinct from the eons. When faced with a perceived threat we’ll naturally revert to a defensive mood. Hate and love require some reflection, evaluation and observation of behavior of an individual or groups of them. When you see someone briefly you are not likely to either hate or love them. You might lust after them but I think everyone would agree that is not love. Hate can sometimes be a good thing and love can warp into destructive or evil actions.
As so often the case the Bible has a great story that illustrate much of the above. King David was flying high. He had everything anyone could want. He succumbed to lust, then love and demonstrated the danger of envy. Envy I think is wanting something that someone else has whereas jealousy is basically fretting over someone taking something away from you. I think Samuel Johnson would have gone along with those definitions. David saw his next door neighbor Bathsheba taking her bath in the garden. She was beautiful and he was struck with that. He arranged to meet with her and flirted, hinting at a fling, she rejected his advances. Told the King she was a married lady. Her husband was Uriah who at the time was off fighting a war on behalf of David. David couldn’t let go of his infatuation and plotted to somehow get Uriah out of the picture. He had Uriah recalled from the battlefield. Uriah did return and slept outside the King’s quarters. When David interviewed him it was learned that Uriah had not gone to his wife on his returne as would have been expected and acceptable. But he had a noble and loyal heart and stayed near the King until called. David was hoping to find something despicable or dishonorable about Uriah but he could find no fault in him.
David sent him back to the battle. But he called in his “general” and instructed him to make sure that Uriah was placed in the front lines in the place of greatest danger. It was done as the King wished and in due course Uriah was slain in battle as David intended. Bathsheba was now his but at a cost that tormented him. You would hope he would be tormented. That was truly a dastardly act. Like Falstaff he had sold his soul for an immediate desire. Love is a good thing, a wonderful thing and it can inspire the most remarkable examples of sacrifice for the benefit of others. But you can’t allow love to become envy or betray decency.
David ruled long and well in spite of his sins with Bathsheba and indeed his seed produced Jesus who exemplified the ultimate of love by giving himself for everyone.
I encourage you to read the story yourself. The good, bad and ugly of hate we’ll leave for another day.
You remember your tenth birthday? The twentieth? The fortieth? I can’t either.
Full moon coming so keep a close eye on the herd so stragglers don’t wander off.
God bless,
olcranky